has_many :new_messages, :class_name => "Message", :foreign_key => :to_user_id, :conditions => { :to_user_visible => true, :message_read => false }, :order => 'sent_on DESC'
has_many :sent_messages, :class_name => "Message", :foreign_key => :from_user_id, :conditions => { :from_user_visible => true }, :order => 'sent_on DESC'
has_many :friends, :include => :befriendee, :conditions => "users.status IN ('active', 'confirmed')"
has_many :new_messages, :class_name => "Message", :foreign_key => :to_user_id, :conditions => { :to_user_visible => true, :message_read => false }, :order => 'sent_on DESC'
has_many :sent_messages, :class_name => "Message", :foreign_key => :from_user_id, :conditions => { :from_user_visible => true }, :order => 'sent_on DESC'
has_many :friends, :include => :befriendee, :conditions => "users.status IN ('active', 'confirmed')"