+<%=
+ unless @friend.befriendee.is_friends_with?(@friend.befriender)
+ t 'notifier.friend_notification.befriend_them',
+ :befriendurl => url_for(:host => SERVER_URL,
+ :controller => "user", :action => "make_friend",
+ :display_name => @friend.befriender.display_name)
+ end
+%>